Do you realize why it is so easy for men to lie, to love, to tease, to flirt, to make love to a total stranger, even to rape?
Few days ago, I can’t help noticed bunch of writings with subject about women that’s written by man. Some are true some are very very wrong.
Instead of correcting those wrong parts, we -women- prefer to chew them, slowly. What we have left?
Confusions. Lots of them.
We go like, wow, I don’t really understand what he s saying but it seems true and … hmm, I don’t know, he could be right. Who cares anyway? I enjoy his company and don’t mind with those bubblings. (God, have mercy on us!)
Men! Can’t live without them yet live with them is like sitting in a giant rollercoaster. Thinking of them as a sexy and romantic being could fly you to an eden. So keep this in mind everytime you feel like wanting to sell your soul to one of these ‘evil beast’, every supersensuous man has a flip side that is shocking and amazing, even when we already knew those since our teenage years. Some could make us laugh, some make us cry. Some are just making me sick! Aren’t you?
Let me remind you of those list (again).
Do you realize why it is so easy for men to lie, to love, to tease, to flirt, to make love (to a total stranger) even to rape? It is all because their knowledge and understanding about wrongdoing is way way up too high. What we women think is wrong, is a simple right for them. So from now on, learn to understand there is a huge gap between our comprehension and theirs. That s what bothers me much. Most men, has an enormous tolerance about (their) sins.
That is why white lies, the need of a woman for (at least) three hearts, affairs and cheatings, is considered as ‘just’ accesories to them. Don’t you just hate them when they lied to you, even when they said it is for our own good.
Girls, remember this. When it is too good to be true, then it is not true! Affair and cheating, are the biggest lie of all, their most ‘good looking weapon’, with word ‘my soulmate’ as their last pick-up line that could melt you in seconds!
Fact number one, men do lies, for their own good, not for us! Trust me. It is their ego they want to save and protect (only God knows from what! Yeah, right, like they do have something to be saved!).
But don’t worry, there is a little advice about this problem. Make sure that the time lag, between the lie took place and the time he confessed, is decreasing. Hopely, he would learn to lie and confess at the same time, meaning, no more lie. (But, don’t count on that too much. There will always be a time lag. Can’t be zero and keep it away from minus level. Let him have a litle piece of you to tease.)
Fact number two, like us, they do concern about how they look! Yes, all of them. Even when they curse and hate the metrosexual clan or those who love to dress up, trust me, all men do care about their physical appearance. I mean, really care. Oh, I am too short, my skin is too dark, my hair is too curly, I am too lame, or I need to be ‘as strong as’ can be. Especially when it is time to meet a woman.
They do think that women are a very ‘dangerous toys’ so it is sometimes been understood that they need to ‘prepare’ things very carefully. Meaning, lie (again!) as much as it takes. Then they put on a suitable mask for every different occasions, just to get the looks they wanna be.
So, you do realize that when they are beginning to take off their mask, one by one, and stand ‘naked’ before your very own eyes, congratulations, he is all yours and yours alone! Not everyday you get to meet this kind of guy. I am glad I have my own though!
Fact numbers three, boys will be boys, men will always be boys. Damn! This fact is the one that make me laugh, thrilled and amazed. In every grown-up (male) you could find a baby inside. I don’t know wheter it is a curse or a blessing in disguise for us, but facing this flip side of a man could make us fall in love, again.
But don’t worry, this personality is not very often shows up. Mostly, the boys side that we see is so ridiculous and childish that make you sick! It is when they could not focus and play around all the time. Pfiiuhhh! Anyway, don’t let this consume your energy.
Just trust them, that even when they act so, actually they are trying to become men, at least at their own definition. Off course, not all of them could manage and succeed, but hey, give them a little credit will ya!
Too complicated right? Whats complicated can’t get any worse if we know how to handle them well. Trust yourself, always. A woman instict has never been proof wrong. Even if it does, consider yourself unlucky! Let go and live it up again. Don’t be too hard on yourself!
For you who still don’t have a man of your own, cheer up! Enjoy your me-time while you can. You’ll never know until you lost it, because sometime you don’t even have that luxurious me-time by the time you got ‘tied up’ to one (or more) man, except your bath time. Could be worse, sometime you even have to take a bath with him, share your only me-time left.
Ladies, let’s march together for happiness!
Jika Anda membaca dengan cukup serius posting ini, pasti kerasa dong bukan tulisanku. So woman, and too good to be my english.
Yep, ini dari salah seorang pembaca wanita, blogger juga, Annisha, yang kelihatannya sedikit “terganggu” dengan ide-ide utama tulisan dalam blog ini. 😉
Very-very interesting, kata orang Batak, mengetahui sudut pandang wanita terhadap sudut pandang kita terhadap mereka. Tadinya mau kuterjemahkan, tp kemudian aku berpikir, penulisnya membuat ini in english, pastilah untuk sebuah alasan.
So, Man, find out another way… 😉