Love doesn’t a solid thing like a stone, or a built up matter hidden somewhere, something that you discover; it has to create, to be made, like bread, remade all the time. You know now, why we say making love, not finding love. The sleeping beauty waiting for a knight to kiss her, was a fairy tale of yesterday. You’re beautiful, but sleeping is no more enough for today.
Life is too short to be spent for looking for a perfect one to love. But there are enough time to create it, to start building it. If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with.
The very first duty of love is to listen, by what you will start to find piece and piece of beautiness inside her. Then it will grow by giving. Stop the calculating, don’t ever thinking or comparising the in and out. The love you give away is the only love you keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
It’s better to start it slowly but sure, than sparkling like fireworks but gone in the dark after few seconds. Indeed, everyone has something beauty inside her, then every single man and woman is deserve to be loved.
Stop praying to marry the one you love, but pray and start to love the one you marry. It’s OK, if it seem not so perfect, not so romantic on the beginning, because a successful long relationship, a great marriage, requires falling in love many times, deeper and stronger in each day, always with the same person.
Harder it to create, harder it to be destroyed.