In my other blog, once I wrote about how unequal is world for women. Too much facts… See the contrasts below.
When a man home lately at night, he will praised as a hard working people, but a woman will be suspected as a bitchy one.
If a man chit-chat with each other in office, well, they’re doing a high level discussion, but women are just gossiping…
and so on…
This is a good story, about how “unequal” is this world for woman, written by this smart muslimah.
Ahmad is a religious young man; praying five times a day, fasting, polite, all good things a muslimah expects from a man. Hamidah is the lucky one, when her parents accepting proposal from Ahmad’s.
But there’s a problem: Ahmad was not virgin :))
As a religious man, Ahmad has to be honest (about his past).
‘In my days of ignorance, I committed illegal sexual relationship with a few girls. I’m not a virgin anymore…’ he told Hamidah.
Hamidah appreciated this rare kind of honestiness. But, in the other hand, she is shocked. Then she told her mother and older sisters, but they weren’t shocked as Hamidah predicted.
‘Hamidah, men are expected to have more “experience” in that part,” her mother told her, a tiny smile is her lips, but a big question is now in Hamidah’ heart.
What happen to religion, where’s justice, the most important point in Islam teaching?
We’re all equal in front of Allah, then what is forbidden for female, must also forbidden for male too, include having sexual relationship without marriage, worst kind of ignorance to God, called zinah!
Hamidah, you must realize from now on, the world is not designed for women. God started it from the beginning of creation. We, men, don’t have anything in our body, to indicate wheter we’re still virgin or already a male-whore.
So, stop finding a virgin man… Indeed, Ahmad is the best you can get, because there’s still a shame and honesty in his heart… while others feel nothings is wrong with beeing a male-whore.